President Obama declared a few weeks ago week that he believes that gays and lesbians should have the right to marry. While his opinion shocked many it also evoked much excitement and gratitude for those who live alternative lifestyles. His declaration of approval left me with mixed emotions.
As a Christian I believe that we all fall short of God’s glory. None of us are perfect that walk this earth. I can openly admit to making lots of mistakes in my lifetime some of which can be seen as conflicting with my Christian beliefs. However, the fact remains that as a Christian I believe that our actions, opinions and beliefs should always line up with the word of God and when they don’t we should repent. How can we represent God if we fail to respect or accurately interpret His word and design for mankind?
I am not by any means saying that I am against gays or lesbians any more than I am saying that I am for them. I believe that God would be pleased if we all treated each other with love and compassion instead of with hate or disgust. However, while I am certain that he wants us to show compassion to those that have different views and lifestyles than our on, I can’t imagine that He would want us to compromise our spiritual beliefs for any reason. God has made His views known to all in his word. Marriage was originally designed to be between one man and one woman.( 1 Corinthians 6:9-11; 1 &Timothy 1:9-10 )Marriage is sacred and is a covenant that was created by God.
It is evident in the world around us that not everyone will honor or believe as we believe as Christians. Yet, does that make it alright for Christians to start compromising the sacredness of God’s legal authority of the land? Whose side are we on when we go against the written word? Man’s or God’s……
I want to hear your thoughts. Do you agree or disagree with Obama’s view? Respectfully, I believe that marriage should be recognized only if it is between a man and a woman.
As many of you know I am homeschooling my kids and my niece. The last couple of weeks we have been talking about plants. We discussed what plants need in order to grow healthy and the process of how plants grow. We planted some sunflower seeds in small containers and sat them in our kitchen windowsill. The kids have all been amazed at how fast they seem to be growing right before our eyes. My oldest daughter said, ” We are taking good care of our plants mommy.” 🙂
Our little science project really got me to thinking of ways in which I can facilitate opportunities to grow in my marriage and family life. The Holy Spirit reminded me that we must nurture our marriages just like flowers. Much like plants our spouses and kids need to receive some very specific things from us in order to grow and to be healthy. If we fail to feed them with the proper nutrients they are very likely to wither and not to grow into the beautiful beings that God has created them to be.
Many marriages and families are growing apart instead of growing together these days. It is our Christian duty to be the light of the world and help bring life to those things that appear dead. Here are some signs that your family may be growing apart:
- You don’t take time to eat meals together
- Everyone has their own agendas
- You make your own plans without consulting your spouse
- You have plenty of individual goals in life, but none that involve the family collectively
God desires that our marriages and families are fruitful! Here are some ways that you can continue to help your family in growing together:
- Hold family meetings to discuss plans, goals, and issues
- Make time to eat and pray together
- Consult your spouse in making decisions that impact the marriage or family as a whole
- Engage in activities that bring the family together to laugh, learn, and love
Decide today if your marriage and family is growing together or growing apart. God desires growth for you and your family. Those that be planted in the house of the Lord shall flourish in the courts of our God. They shall still bring forth fruit in old age; they shall be fat and flourishing; (Psalm 92:13-14)