Are you a bit self- righteous? Self- righteous people can be the most annoying people to be around. They are the ones that think everything they do is right and everything you do is wrong. Even in the midst of their own troubles they find time to insult, humiliate, or judge others around them. These type of people make others very uncomfortable during their interactions and this is therefore often the cause of many broken relationships.
Self-righteousness people tend to think that their thinking process is superior to everyone else’s. They often use condensing and judgmental comments to prove that their opinions or feelings are more valuable than yours. Self-righteous attitudes can destroy marriages and other relationships faster than other sins because it becomes obvious to others around you that your thinking leads your decisions. When the focus of your thinking is “self-righteous” you are only concerned with being right. You have little ability to see things from other people’s point of view which can be a big turn off to family, friends, and even coworkers.
The bible tells us that the Master will know our character by our fruit. What fruit is growing on your tree??? Whether it is self-righteousness or some other sinful behavior it’s time to make a change. God desires for us to grow our relationships by developing in the fruit of the spirits.
If you are exhibiting self-righteous thinking in your marriage or relationships take time to meditate on the scriptures below.